23 years ago he was born…
He fought a hell lot of time before he felt his mother’s warmth.
Dad’s favorite…
In spite of being a part of an upcoming hard working middle class family, the child was loved very much and was very much blessed by God dearly.
Then he had a beautiful sibling to play with for himself. The family was a blessed one after that.
6 different schools,
He was never wanted beside anyone in the class because maybe that was his fate,
Growing up being unwanted and being pushed away and treated like an untouchable was really hard for this child…
But little did that child know that he had started fighting for himself from a very young age.
And then college started, hoping life would change…
Phataakkkkk!!! Not only did puberty hit him, but also his now best friend…
True!!!A little prank gone wrong or maybe misunderstood and he got slapped in front of 50 students, A day which had brought his first three best friends in his life.
HOPE!!! The best thing in a human’s life… he finally got what he had hoped for.
A Support for himself in his fight.
With the help of his two best friends, he had started watching, knowing and understanding the society, the world.
But while that was happening, his parents thought he was slipping away from their hands.
And it all started; Conflicts of Interest, Difference of Opinion, Different Mindset…
This made the fight even more difficult…
Under Grad college had been hell of a bumpy ride…
Less of ups and mostly downs…
Figures of education started going down, but had knowledge and practicality though,
Somewhere in this process the child tried to fly on his own from his parents nest,
But was mistaken to be slipping away from hands,
His fight had become tougher as now he also had to prove his family.
At the same time, his support had also increased from three best friends to nine.
College was finished but yet to be finished,
Was criticized at every point for not able to bring good figures,
Was criticized for not having a GOOD FOR NOTHING degree even while pursuing a promising career.
Being from a well esteemed and established family the fight had become impossible to win as the family had a constant fear of what would the society say.
Now his self esteem has gone down so low for he thinks he is a Loser.
And the society has labeled him a Failure.
But he is still fighting,
He is fighting against the society,
Against the family for the respect he deserves,
Against himself, for feeling hopeless, lonely and distressed.
For one of his Best Friends said to him, “YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE, YOU ARE A FIGHTER.”
THE OUTCASTED 
It’s obvious that every parent reacts wildly if they find their child little deviated or abnormal. I understand it, because out of mere love and concern they does it. But instead of going behind figures, parents needs to figure out what actually the child is going through. There is a very need for psychological support expected out of parents at that juncture. From times immemorial, society has not accepted the unapproved behavioral patterns. If something goes off the course the reception from the people around us diminishes and parents are afraid of this stereotyped society and constantly try to push their child to strive to be a conventional one. In fact, we need no approval from anyone to be ourselves. Each one of us has our own journey and nothing to do with others.
Everything depends on how one perceives it. Something good to you might appear wrong to me and better to someone else. It’s as simple as that. Success-failure, winner-looser, good-bad are relative terms. We try to compare the good with the best and conclude on that. Society has coined the term success according to its convenience. Taking good numbers in scholastics, landing in a white collared job, getting married to a beautiful affluent life partner, having two wonderful kids, is what success is??? If this is the case, Albert Einstein and Bill Gates were backbenchers and college dropouts. Why do broken marriages still prevail in the cream of richest people on the earth?? These remain unanswered questions forever.
I think its high time for every parent to stress on being humane and responsible rather than their kid being successful.
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